CHANGE: IT STARTS WITH ME

Change for the better not for the worse

           

            Nothing is permanent in this world, people change. Nothing stays the same. Well for me change is not a bad thing at all except if that change is for the worse not for the better.

        

         People nowadays can easily judge someone especially when they see a big difference on that person. Like changing the styles of clothing, hair and everything in their appearance. Most of celebrities usually experience these cases.

        

        

      Maybe they just wanted to look unique from the others and make their own signature styles but some of us failed to understand that. There’s always bashers in every fans, there’s always bad comments in the good ones and there’s always this one person in your life who will try to put you down while you’re going up and I think that there’s only one big reason behind all of these things and that is INSECURITY.

        

         I admit that sometimes I am insecure but I will never ever let this to change me in my worst version. It’s true that you cannot please everybody. That whenever I try to make a difference they will always have their own opinions and sayings to me but at the end of the day, it is either I’ll listen to them or I’ll listen to my heart and mind, it’s me who have the final decision to make. My surroundings and the people I have been with have a great contribution to change me, they can affect my personality but then again the change starts with me. No matter how big their influence, I have the will power to decide for the change that I wanted because I am the master of my faith and the captain of my soul.

        

         Always remember that change starts in ourselves .Don’t ever think that you must change your whole personality so that people will like you the way they wanted you to be but if you feel that you should change for the better then go for it, as long as you’re happy and you’re doing the right.